Fear
FEAR Like so many other people, I procrastinate. I have a fairly good work ethic, so why do I do it? I am convinced that it is because of fear. I am afraid of failure. But, it becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy. The voices of toxic people in our lives, past or present, can harm us. They have told us we are unworthy in so many ways, even by smearing our reputations with others, so they turn against us, as well. If you don't feel up to the task, and feel you will fail, anyway, it really does feel as though it would be easier and less painful to just not try. The thing is that they were /are lying to you! The things they say have been carefully crafted, or merely thrown up against the wall to see if they stick. They are trying to get a reaction out of you. They will gauge your reactions to see what elicits different responses, just as they gathered information from you during your honeymoon stage of friendship-information to later use against you. They do not want you